New Year and Your Resolutions – Make it Happen!


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There is something to be said about New Year resolutions. They come around every year for you to brood over and make them, some new and some probably carry over from the last year.

It’s okay to carry over a few, so long as the past year wasn’t enough to accomplish them or if the timing wasn’t just right. But, to have them show up just because you put them together last year only to forget about them or provide an excuse as to never follow up and lo, here they show up again. That’s a big no-no.

Well, on a positive note, you still seem to have a yearning to get through that them this year. That’s why you remembered and put it on the list this year.

Resolutions are your self-appraisal notes for the year to improve you before it ends. The first task is to put some thought into them and make a priority order of things you want to ensure you achieve during the year. They could be as simple as to dress better, exercise regularly each week and lose a set number of pounds before the year ends to more formidable ones as to save a certain amount of money for the down payment on that new house or new car , make the jump into being an entrepreneur and getting your own company started.

Making resolutions is the easy part. After all, it’s just a list you throw together, right.

More important is to keep them top of mind, each month, and week and day. Make sure you have them written and staring at you everyday. Put them up on your mirror to stare back at you each morning or as the background screen of your computer so you look at them all the time, whatever works for you as a constant reminder. The only way to muster motivation and strength to work on them is to have them right and center, in front of your eyes.

Next, make time each week, or perhaps, every two weeks to go back to your resolutions and evaluate yourself for the time that just went by and your adherence to them. Have you kept up with the work needed to accomplish them? Have you slipped on any? If so, why? What is your excuse to yourself? What can you do different so that you make the effort to not strike one off your list, but make changes in your daily routine, so you get started on that one resolution that you know, you HAVE to accomplish.

Measure, recalibrate and move forward. The harder part is to get moving on the work to accomplish your resolutions. Once you start moving and get inertia out of the way, the momentum and the excitement of the positive results you continue to see will ensure you get through them.

And, what better moment than the euphoria you experience when you have accomplished your resolutions and are in a better place than when you made them and now, you just have more improvement and accomplishments to look forward to!

Happy New Year and all the best with your resolutions! I will see you accomplished over the next 12 months.

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Tell a story…each time….every time!


A universal truism the world over is that every one loves a story. Doesn’t necessarily have to be a good one. It’s another thing that if the story is good, you have more eyes peeled on you and more ears perked up than when it is not. In fact, story telling has been an age-old pastime that has enamored generations of humans. This is reiterated today in the success of Hollywood to Bollywood and all the woods in between. Also, there are channels galore cropping up each day the world over; everyone has a story to tell.

The story telling talent is one you need to develop, to inspire others’ interest in you and what you have to convey. In today’s age of social media and online networking, sharing tidbits of your life makes you more approachable and interesting for others. In fact, it gives a sense of familiarity to even those you have never met. Cultivating this talent accelerates success in both, your professional and personal lives.

On the professional front, it helps to build and leverage your brand. Privacy is definitely something that should be fiercely guarded and cherished. But, there are aspects that compliment you as a person and professional that should be shared with the world. That is how you enhance your professional stature and add value to your contributions. It’s important that these aspects are showcased to help build and share your unique personal brand. What you can expect as a part of this personal branding is more and better work, respect in your professional community and recognition for what you do and represent.

As a person and a professional, embrace story telling as a part of your communication techniques. It is bound to draw more attentive listeners and will ensure you leave a mark with your listeners. Whether interviewing for a job, leading a conference call, addressing a meeting or talking to your team, use the story telling approach. Mind you, it should be short, crisp and to the point.

Now, let’s discuss this technique further;

First, set the stage. Discuss the situation and characterize those involved. Develop the scenario.

Next, relate the conflict. Talk about the abrasion. It’s human nature that a conflict perks up our interest and then, the human mind starts to think in terms of solutions.

Third, describe the struggles, trials and tribulations in facing up to the conflict. Give listeners the unexpected. Tide over their expectations to peak their interest and encourage involvement. This keeps the listeners engaged in the dialogue around the conflict and will even encourage interaction in terms of the listeners’ ideas about solutions to mitigate the struggle.

Fourth, drive the listeners through the interesting discussion that began with the statement of conflict. Drive toward the end, towards a resolution of the conflict.

Finally, state the change in the situation. Ensure the listeners have assimilated the finality of the solution.

Your attendees will leave with appreciation of the exercise and will look forward to future interesting interactions with you. And, when in one, you can be rest assured that they are at their attentive best!