The Dream Act!


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Nothing worthwhile happens in a jiffy. At the same time, it doesn’t need to take ages to make it happen as well.

Anything and everything that you want to do, be it to excel in a class, lose weight or build a ripped body, land that promotion or build your own business, all of this needs planning and effort on your part to make it happen. Whether you realize it or not, there is a certain level of planning that goes into architecting your life and everything you want to do with it. It’s when this planning is poor or not in complete recognition of factors affecting you and what you seek to do, that efforts fail. But worse than that, is not making an effort at all. You could do all the planning in the world and still not move an inch on executing your plan. Do not wonder when you hardly see any results. You could be most efficient up there in your head, but if that efficiency and execution do not hit the ground in real life, you will be exactly where you are, building large castles in your head.

The power of vision and planning is immense. But the best of plans are laid to waste due to a paucity of will to execute on them. More than the whole exercise of execution that might seem like a lofty task right at the beginning, let me say, that the conviction to start is important. You have the vision of what could be and a solid plan to back it up to show that yes, if executed this can mean an immense change for you and those around you in real life. However, envisioning the expanse of the execution and unforeseen challenges that you might come across overwhelm you. That is where you need to reign in the horses of your ever-wandering mind which starts to create this maze of “if, thens and buts” that tend to hamper your enthusiasm before you even begin. Human mind has a way of controlling you and sometimes, you have to know when to control your mind.

More important is to know that you just need to start and take it, one day at a time. You still need to have your clarity of vision but plan to execute, more for the mid to short term. Most important, go with the flow and start on it. Every small step counts; every daily challenge overcome is triumph. Soon, when you look back at the journey you took, there are miles of steps taken, dozens of challenges overcome and your vision unfolding in real life, right in front of you.

Never let go of your dreams! Never let them be just dreams!

Dreams do come true, only if you come through for them!

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Can you Think Yourself into Your Desired Level of Success?


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During the days when I taught management courses, many a student has asked me, “How do I become as successful in life as I possibly can?” In some cases, the question was, “How do I become as successful as I want to?” The de facto answer was, “Work hard.” And there were several others such as establish goals, pursue them diligently, dream big, focus, plan your work, work your plan, etc.”

Now, in hindsight, I would have given a more introspective answer for them to reflect upon. Not that all said above is untrue; it surely is a requirement for success. But, there are several intrinsic behaviors and patterns that determine the level of success you achieve in life.

It’s often said that in order to be successful at what you do, know your strengths and weaknesses and surround yourself with people who are strong in your weak areas. As a result, you develop a circle of strength from which to operate and find positive results in your endeavors.

However, how do you determine your level of success? I mean, how do you ensure you make a positive impact in the lives of thousands of people versus a few hundred or even tens? How do you build a business that is multi-national than locally or regionally focused? How do you build a billion dollar corporation than one that plays in the hundreds of thousands? How do you land the job you desire in the field of your choice in the organization you aspire to work for? How do you grow your career prospects as you gather experience? How do you move into your desired lifestyle? The answer to this lies in the daily life you cultivate and nurture. In other words, your daily interactions, the people you interact with, the books you read, the inspiration and thoughts you cultivate and the rapport you share with those that have done it before.

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Dreaming big and executing on a roadmap to realize your dream is just not enough. You need to build and interact with the right network, develop a nourishing atmosphere so that you can constantly draw inspiration; all your interactions, thoughts and actions need to be a sum total of this. Draw inspiration to chart your own path, the way you see it. Talk, read, and contemplate on what you aspire to do every second, every minute of your existence. Build on the intensity so that your thoughts are shaped by it which shows in your decisions, your actions and finally in your results.

It’s also often said, “When in Rome, act like the Romans.” Well, this is not about acting like Romans, but about getting to be the King of Rome. Not when in Rome, but on the way to Rome, so you arrive King!

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The Promise Of Hope!


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An entrepreneurial journey.

A creative endeavor.

Graduating from school.

Starting a family.

Raising kids.

Planning your future.

The promise of hope is what keeps the world going! Hope is the magical elixir that keeps the rainbow-hued horizon always bright, no matter the present or past; and rightfully so. The promise of your future should be pursued using lessons from the past and applying them in your present. And, at all times, the promise of the future is always bright!

How else would you find yourself getting up each time you fall, just to work as hard, if not harder in pursuit of your goals, unmindful of all that you have been through so far.

Sometimes, the hue of hope tends to show the future in a skewed rosy tint. Beware! It’s alright to be hopeful but not by being blindsided to the facts of the present. Hope keeps the pursuit of a better tomorrow alive but in order to make that possible, plan your present well and follow the plan, analyze each step you take, make adjustments and corrections to sustain your immediate goals and collectively, these small successes will propel you toward your ultimate goal. The best part is that all this can begin anytime you are ready and there is no better time than now!

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Success – Where do you look for yours?


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Success is a two way street.

Not many realize that and keep running hard on the wheel of daily life, doing their job and hoping to succeed some day.

Let me tell you that by following this formula, you may make a living but, will not find the success that you aspire for, in your career or in your life.

Here’s a universally acknowledged way of making things happen.

  1. Have a vision of the life you aspire for,
  2. Chart your path of realization,
  3. Plan and Execute.

Voila! Your aspirations come true.

As simple as it may seem, much goes into this process in terms of breadth and depth to achieve results. Yet, what you find in terms of achievement may fall short of your expectations.

I would like to focus on point 3 above and share a widely visible but, often overlooked ingredient to making things happen.

As I said at the beginning, success is a two way street. Generally, everyone who is out to succeed is so wrapped up in their own definition of success that they are out to do it by themselves and, for themselves. This is a very hard way of finding any success and if found, very little.

True success finds you when you are out to help others succeed. Don’t focus on your success but on the success of others. Make it your mission to help others succeed; your friends, co-workers, associates, team members, partners and clients, in short everyone you interact with or come across. When you make it your agenda to help others succeed, your success happens without really pushing for it or consciously trying. The more people you help succeed, you will in turn be that much more successful. How positive than this can it get?

Change the way you comprehend your success. Your success is not proportional to the amount of effort you exert but to the effort you expend in helping others succeed. In fact, not even that, its proportional to the amount of success enjoyed by those that you have helped.

Turn around and measure your success with the success you have helped impart to others. Learn to find your success in that of others. Without even your realization, you start to accrue immense success for yourself through the multiplier effect. The best part, you did not have to strive for it. In fact, you would have spent time doing something very fulfilling and gratifying; helping others succeed. Result; you have developed a vastly successful community and your success puts you at the pinnacle of it.

So, who are you out to help succeed today?

After all, you create your own legacy


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I saw an interesting facebook post by a cousin the other day. He, being around 40, concluded that he might live for another 20, perhaps 30 years which he stated turn out to be roughly 10K days. He realized its time to have a plan in place and ensure none of these days are merely wasted. Now, that’s an interesting way to look at the future; 30 years vs. 10K days. Suddenly, things seem to fall into perspective, don’t they?

One of the secrets to a zestful life is having an aspiration and a strong determination to follow through, no matter what your age. It doesn’t necessarily have to be just one or something lofty. It may be numerous aspirations, which are perhaps simple pleasures in life. Some of you, my friends may prefer to call it the bucket list.

Once you aspire for something, to plan for it meticulously, executing on that plan while ensuring you aren’t deviating from your goal, impromptu decisions to tackle unforeseen obstacles and finally, achieving what you planned to accomplish have their own unique sweetness and sense of fulfillment that each must cherish.

Change in perspective only helps put us back on track where we might have indulged in inertia for too long. I believe that such incidents or differed views only help refocus on a track previously treaded on and perhaps you meandered away from. Although, such wake-up calls are necessary, one in pursuit of a burning aspiration should never need them. Constant focus is imperative but, being human does come in the way and that’s where they bring you back on track.

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While doing this, you will time and again come face to face with your persona, will be able to review and improve upon a better self, will cross your achievements and cherish that sense of fulfillment I related before.

Not just professionally, but aim to have these aspirations in your personal life as well.

Seek to be a better parent, a better spouse, a better brother or sister, a better friend, a better you.

After all, you create your own legacy.

Are you a true leader?


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A leader is one who leads, both in strategy and in execution. However, in the corporate world, somehow strategy is over-rated. A good strategist might not be a good executioner and vice versa. But, to be a good leader, you need to ace in both. Alright, if not ace, at least strive to ace in both.

Strategy is important to ensure game changing tactics that will turn things in your favor or in the direction you desire. But, a well laid out strategy just doesn’t win the game. The application of that strategy and its perfect execution becomes all the more important. Because, there are no results without execution. An idea or dream is not true until realized. It’s just that, an idea or a dream.

Execution, by itself can be a futile attempt, if the plan is not well thought and laid out. A good leader is one who understands the interdependency of strategy and execution, applies intellect to strategize and discipline to execute. A true leader is one who leads from the front in either area. Not someone, who plans but leaves the execution to others.

One clarification, I do want to make is that, a leader also has to trust and delegate. But, this is a learned trait and one that sharpens with experience. An aide, who the leader can depend on to perform to set expectations, is a great candidate to delegate to. This does not necessarily mean that the aide has to be a replica of the leader. Every person is unique. Different traits can be applied in different scenarios and that is where a leader’s acumen comes into play, to choose the right delegates for the right part of the job. There are those that may see this as a part of strategy itself. But, in order to make these decisions, a leader needs to have spent time leading execution as well, from the front. That is when, at a later time, the leader can afford to lead through delegation, yet have complete control over the execution.

Some may argue that in today’s world, a few things can be learnt from others’ experiences. Absolutely! But, execution and delegation, I do not think they come that easy. If you want to ensure that every time you lead, you come out a winner; the best experience is your very own.